The coaching journey has been an eye-opening experience, like unraveling the layers of an onion and discovering raw vulnerabilities I never knew were there. In just two days, I’ve been pushed to question my long-held beliefs about myself and the coaching process.
I’ve always prided myself on being a good listener, but the CPC course has taught me that there’s so much more to it. Active listening is not just about hearing words; it’s about fully engaging with the speaker’s world without any judgment or interruptions. I’ve come to appreciate the power of silence as a way for clients to explore their thoughts deeply.
It is so important to understand the delicate balance between asking insightful questions and allowing time for introspection. Overcoming the fear of coming across as intrusive is a real challenge. I’ve learned that clients really appreciate and value thoughtful exploration.
The course has also prompted me to engage in self-reflection. The “wheel of life” exercise, in which I had to assess my satisfaction in different areas of my life, compelled me to confront long-held beliefs about my priorities and values. It was a stark reminder that while I may have been concentrating on external achievements, my internal world was yearning for attention.
I’ve always been driven by a desire to help others. Still, this course has illuminated the importance of self-care in achieving that goal. The realization that I’ve often neglected my own needs in pursuit of helping others is a powerful one. It’s a call to balance my desire to serve with the necessity of self-preservation.
One of the most significant shifts in perspective has been the understanding that coaching is as much about the coach’s journey as the client’s. By confronting my vulnerabilities and seeking personal growth, I’m better equipped to create a safe and supportive space for others.
As I embark on this new chapter, I’m filled with excitement and trepidation. The potential to positively impact people’s lives is incredibly motivating. Still, the fear of falling short, of not being able to meet the expectations of my clients, is ever-present. Yet, I’m reminded of the courage it took to learn to skydive, a feat that seemed impossible until I took that leap of faith. With each step forward, I build the confidence and skills to soar as a coach.
I can’t wait to tackle the challenges ahead because the potential rewards are massive! I’m itching to dive headfirst into coaching, soak up all the knowledge, and reach new heights. The thought of learning from you, my fellow coaches and mentors, as we embark on this adventure together has me absolutely thrilled!
