Once, I “coached” everyone but myself. I chased solutions for others, neglecting the cracks forming in my foundation. Frustration and self-doubt gnawed at me, yet a flicker of hope remained. Coaching, I believed, held the key to my transformation.
The CTA CPC course was a real eye-opener for me. It helped me to realize that being a “coach” was not just about skills and techniques but about understanding myself and my values. It was a challenging experience, but it taught me that failure is often just the first step towards growth. Through this process, I discovered that my coaching journey will be guided by faith and a deep sense of gratitude.
The Burden of Solutions:
I used to be the go-to person for solving everyone’s problems. But I started to wonder why I couldn’t figure out how to make myself truly happy. This unease lit a fire inside me and drove me to sign up for a coaching course.
It was a significant realization – the weight of constantly trying to fix everything for others was finally lifted off my shoulders. I came to understand that my role wasn’t to provide people with all the answers but rather to guide and support them as they uncovered their own hidden talents and potential. This change in perspective resonated deeply with me, echoing my own desire to explore and understand myself on a deeper level.
A Divine Gift:
The program was more than just an academic experience; it felt like a profound spiritual awakening. Within this environment, trust was revered as a sacred gift, and confidentiality was a solemn oath that could not be broken. It was a space where the focus was on holding up a mirror to individuals’ souls, allowing them to see their own brilliance reflected back at them.
The Learning Ladder:
Each module became a rung on a ladder, a path towards self-discovery. My values, faith, and gratitude became the foundation, shaping the coach I would be. The ICF code of ethics provided the guardrails, ensuring my journey remained ethical and empowering.
Unmasking the Hero Within:
The course peeled back layers, revealing a coach yearning to be coached. With each question, I delved deeper into my own life. What choices had led me here? How could I be more present and patient in my interactions? Self-coaching became the key to unlocking my true potential.
The Symphony of Coaching:
The language of coaching resonated within me: “active listening,” “unconditional positive regard,” and “thought-provoking questions.” These weren’t just words; they were the instruments of a symphony, an orchestra of human connection.
Beyond the Classroom Walls:
The “classroomy” feel vanished, replaced by a symphony of shared experiences. Here, diversity wasn’t a checkbox but a vibrant tapestry of perspectives. We bonded not through shared backgrounds but through the vulnerability of shared truths. Once a hidden facet, religion found a place of acceptance, a testament to the course’s genuine love for humanity.
The Architect Emerges:
Today, I’m no longer a coach in the shadows. I’m an architect, crafting a framework for others to unveil their inner light. This journey has been a testament to the power of self-reflection and the transformative potential of coaching. And now, I’m eager and prepared to guide others on their path to self-discovery.
Have you ever felt like you were constantly fixing things for others while your own life felt like a cracked mirror? This CPC course shattered my reflection, but it wasn’t a punishment – it was a wake-up call. It forced me to confront the cracks in my foundation and begin the beautiful, messy rebuilding process.
This journey taught me that true transformation often starts with a broken reflection. It’s in the vulnerability of facing our flaws that we discover the strength to heal and the courage to grow. Self-reflection is not a punishment but a powerful tool for personal growth.
So, what cracks are you ignoring in your own reflection? What buried treasures might be waiting to be unearthed if you dared to look closer?
