The first two days of my coaching course have been a revelation. It’s not just about learning techniques; it’s about fostering an environment that allows for true connection and transformation.
The Power of Connection
The stark difference between this group and my previous coaching experience highlights the importance of connection. The open, trusting atmosphere created by the CTA (Coach Transformation Academy) approach allows everyone to participate and grow. This resonates deeply with the CTA belief that the answers lie within each of us – we just need the right environment and support to unlock them.
The Magic of Words
The CTA’s Coaching Training course has emphasized the power of language in coaching. Words shape how we perceive situations, how we feel, and the possibilities we see. This reinforces the CTA belief in the mind-body connection, where both aspects must be addressed for holistic growth.
Coaching as a Partnership
The discussions on life coaching versus business coaching solidified my belief in a holistic approach. Life is not compartmentalized; we are one person navigating all aspects of existence. This aligns with the International Coaching Federation (ICF) definition of coaching, where clients are responsible for their success, and the coach serves as a partner in their journey.
Boundaries and Values
The discussion around “when to coach and when not to coach” was precious. Understanding the boundaries between coaching and other interventions clarifies my role and protects the integrity of the coaching relationship. Similarly, acknowledging the importance of aligned values allows me to say no to clients whose values conflict with mine. This is not about practicality but creating a space of mutual respect and understanding.
Being vs. Doing
The distinction between “doing” and “being” struck a chord within me. My tendency to “fix things” through action is strong. However, this course encourages me to cultivate the art of “being” – to be present and create space for deeper exploration. Meditation has become a pre-coaching ritual, allowing me to center myself and approach sessions with an open mind.
The Art of Listening
I am fascinated by the power of mindful silence in creating a supportive coaching environment. Active listening goes beyond simply hearing words; it’s about choosing words carefully and being fully present. This awareness will expand my vocabulary and strengthen my ability to connect with clients.
The Wheel of Life: A Tool for Transformation
The Wheel of Life exercise is a powerful tool for self-discovery and goal-setting. It allows clients to visualize areas for improvement and identify the root cause of challenges. This reinforces the importance of discovery sessions and goal agreements within the coaching framework.
A Journey of Self-Discovery
Despite my extensive background in coaching, psychology, and meditation, I recognize that I am still at the beginning of my journey. Embracing the ‘conscious competence’ stage, where practice and experimentation are vital to growth, is a powerful realization. This course has given me the tools to overcome my fear of failure and fully embrace the learning process, inspiring me to continue my journey with renewed energy and determination.
As Kyle’s metaphor of the flight attendant underscores, self-care is paramount. By prioritizing self-nurturing, I can approach coaching with a wealth of energy and empathy. This journey is not just about coaching others; it’s about my own personal transformation. The communication skills I gain will not only enhance my coaching practice but also enrich all aspects of my life, fostering a deep sense of connection and engagement.
The supportive environment and inspiring group have reignited my passion for coaching.
I am eager to continue learning, practicing, and embarking on this transformational journey with the CTA team. The sense of security and value I feel in this environment is unparalleled, and I am excited to see where this journey takes me.
